From The Land Of Smiles: Values From Across The Globe

Catherine Sheehan
Staff Writer

Hey Flyers! I hope you enjoyed my last post about my first few weeks in Thailand. After people watching like my life depends on it, I’ve continued learning a lot and would like to share more thoughts From the Land of Smiles.

What I have noticed more than anything is how different our values are. In the land of the free, Americans value independence, which can be achieved through equality and hard work. In the land of smiles, however, Thais value interdependence, which can be achieved through social harmony and ease. The two could really not be more different.

While the majority of Americans take pride in doing things for themselves, Thais don’t see success the same way. Here, people happily work together to get things done. I have experienced this in several ways. In the times I have gotten a little lost navigating this beautiful city, I have been approached by multiple people offering to help me find my way.
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In America, this is less common because approaching someone who looks confused might mean that they lose face and are not successfully being independent. Since Thais don’t have this same fear, they are quick to pull their resources and offer help.

They are also quick to make fun of themselves and each other, which is something a traveler can find comforting. For example, I’m attempting to learn how to listen and speak in Thai.

The language is extremely difficult since it is a tonal language with an entirely different alphabet. So, when I try to order at a restaurant and say something completely wrong, instead of being instantly embarrassed, I have learned to be quick to laugh with the person taking my order.
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I have really come to appreciate these experiences that are so contrary to anything at home. It’s not weird, just different!

Look out for my next post if you’re interested in hearing more about life across the globe! Until then, Jai Yen or relax!

Photos Courtesy of Catherine Sheehan/Staff Writer